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The Playboy Advisor offers some “fatherly” advice to a woman who can’t bite her tongue in the bedroom. Plus, advice on rolling in the hay, shower sex and separation anxiety
I think I’m addicted to calling men “daddy” during sex. It just comes out! Sometimes they’re into it; other times they freak out. I know what you’re thinking: daddy issues, right? But I have a relatively healthy relationship with my father. I never used the word in this context before my last boyfriend, when it just happened to become our sexual dynamic. Now I’m hooked. What does it mean, and what should I do?—J.K., Pella, Iowa
Indeed, most people assume that if you have the urge to call your sexual partners “daddy” during sex, you must have daddy issues. Most people are wrong. That argument may have held sway when Sex and the City was considered an authority on all things libidinous, but it’s a new day. You don’t have a Lolita complex either.
Decadence: If there is one person who understand its elusive nature – and the intrinsic human desire for it, particularly in times of pandemic emotional and social unrest – it’s Richie Notar. The New York native was barely 17-years-old when he began working as a busboy at an up-and-coming nightclub called Studio 54.
The Playboy Advisor on sex work, spit, choking and hooking up with professors
I’m a recent college grad who has decided to make a life change: I want a sugar mama. I have an entry-level job and almost no disposable income, and I’d love to get a fixed allowance with minimal effort. I know these relationships are common and can be set up on various websites, but for a straight guy, is it as simple as creating a profile?—J.S., Cincinnati, Ohio
There’s no shame in using what your mama gave you to get yourself another mama, and there’s definitely no shame in being a kept man. So why aren’t more young men enlisting generous older dames to sponsor their checking accounts? Because nothing is free.
Elusive and uncommon, the female condom is an almost mythical mode of contraception few have heard of and even fewer have used. The typical response to its mention is something like, “You mean a diaphragm?” or merely an expression of faint bemusement.
Belly loves accessories. He adores a pair of dark sunglasses, silken scarf and hefty pendant necklace. The rapper, singer, songwriter and producer also enjoys a custom kimono and glittering diamanté embellishment. While his personal style shifts and morphs by the day, there is one accessory he is guaranteed to be seen with at almost all times.
If you don’t know who Hayleau is, you should. If you already do, you probably better know her as Hayley Law and recognize her as Valerie, the character she plays on the CW’s cult-hit reboot of a classic comic series, Riverdale. (She’s the Josie and the Pussycats singer who went rogue and dated Archie on the first season.) In real life, the 25-year-old Vancouver native is unfiltered, unpretentious and infectiously uninhibited. Hayleau is also a legit woman to watch.
For Playboy‘s October 2016 Renegades Issue, we selected seven cultural rule breakers who are changing the way we think, dress, play and more. Renegade Noor Tagouri chats about the state of journalism today and her effort to break through as the first hijabi news anchor in American TV history.
To queef or not to queef? That’s not really much of a question
Air: We need it to survive, but at times air can be so cruel, so crass, and in some cases, infuriatingly cock-blocking…well, more like fuck-disrupting, but you get the gist. The long-lost sister of the fart, a queef is an elusive, impetuous scene-stealer. It’s only natural there are a multitude of varied feelings surrounding the uninvited cameo of the queef during sex, among them shame, unease, amusement, bemusement, and even heightened arousal.
For every action, there is an opposite and equal reaction. So goes Sir Isaac Newton’s third law of motion. Fashion is apparently very much like physics because for every trend (or concept or movement, depending on your choice of semantics), there, too, is an opposite and equal reaction.
The A to Zs of getting it on and getting away with it
Act natural
Three words: Calm, cool, and collected. If you act suspicious, you are suspicious. Also, it helps not to care if strangers or friends are onto you. Besides, if people see you leaving, say, a bathroom with somebody else, they'll probably just assume you were doing drugs. Let them speculate after you ejaculate!
Author and humorist Patricia Marx discusses search history shame, trying to learn Cherokee, and fighting the reality that we've all been getting dumber since college
If you've heard of Patricia Marx, you likely already know that she was the first woman elected to The Harvard Lampoon or that she was a writer for Saturday Night Live during the show's glory days in the early '80s.
Go get your nails done. Then go get high.
It’s an unlikely pairing, but why not combine two of your potentially favorite things? Think of these 12 manicures as mere metaphors for their coordinating plant pedigrees.